minds
Who can erase any thoughts and/or memories - we may be forgetful at times, but
anything can trigger a past event. Our brains are marvelous computers. GIGO
John, do you remember your first love? Does that mean you still have a
*relationship*? I remember childhood playmates, school teachers, store owners,
etc., etc., but that does not mean I have a relationship with any of them. Mom
has not invited me to one of her family reunions for 18 years (I hear about them
through the grape vine). I could go on and on and on. But none of that is really
necessary.
I say Ignorance By Choice because her little girl was dying and all the
information was there - a few years ago when I said my bg is 43, she said, "Is
that low?" This after 4 decades. She has the attitude if you ask questions that
means you don’t know, and if you don’t know, you’re dumb.
There is also a big difference in a mental relationship of someone who gave
birth to you and a physical, caring, involved relationship.
Don’t you just hate people who can’t tolerate?
Jan